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The Impact of Media on Our Lives: Porn vs. Romance Novels
🧠How Our Brains React Differently Watching porn and reading romance novels activate different parts of the brain, leading to distinct mental and emotional experiences. Porn and Immediate Visual Stimulation Pornography primarily stimulates the brain’s reward system through intense visual and sensory input. This triggers a rapid release of dopamine, the neurotransmitter linked to pleasure and motivation. The quick dopamine surge can create a strong but short-lived feeling of
Jun 174 min read
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Empowering Women’s Pleasure: Understanding Desires, Fantasies and the Threat to Masculine Norms
Women’s sexual desires often challenge traditional masculine norms. Many men expect women’s sexuality to revolve around their own desires or control. When women express fantasies or pleasures that don’t fit these expectations, it can feel like a loss of control or a threat to their identity.
May 305 min read
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My NY Times Interview - How Romantasy Saved My Sex Life.
Pregnant at 21 - Baby at 22 Married at 23 Pregnant at 24 - Baby at 25 Pregnant at 26 - Baby at 27 Opened a fashion boutique from the ground up at 28, Foster Parent certified at 28 - Foster parent to a 1-year-old at 29-31... Yes, my doctors repeatedly told me that my missing libido, lack of energy, fatigue, and brain fog were all "normal life stresses" from being a mother and business owner. I wasn't going to let that define my intimacy and the orgasms I craved with my hu
May 156 min read
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Seed Cycling for Women: Balancing Hormones Naturally with Pumpkin and Sunflower Seeds
Balancing Hormones Naturally With Seed Cycling!
May 123 min read
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Maintaining Inner Peace: Rise Above Negativity from Others
All too often I hear clients say things like "They made me so mad!" or "I lost my temper because of what they said!". The reality is if...
Jan 17, 20242 min read
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What Are Your Emotions Telling You?
My life is my teacher and being a mother to a 13 year old girl currently is like getting my Masters Degree. Recently I entered her room...
May 4, 20225 min read
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What Will You Give Up For Your Happiness?
So often we want something new in our life. A new relationship. A new career path. A new sense of travel, adventure, health etc. But...
Feb 2, 20227 min read
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It's OK To Change The Tradition
tra·di·tion noun 1. the transmission of customs or beliefs from generation to generation, or the fact of being passed on in this way. We...
Nov 27, 20214 min read
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Hormones, Am I Right?
When people ask me how old my babies are and I respond that I have a 12 year old girl, 9 year old boy and a 7 year old girl I get a lot...
Nov 23, 20214 min read
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F.E.A.R
I used to think that fear meant "Forget Everything And Run". That makes sense when you're little I think. If you hear a scary noise, you...
Jun 30, 20214 min read
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How To Open A Boutique In A Pandemic
You just do it because life is too short to be scared all the time. When you're wanting to do anything, ask yourself a few questions. Is there a need?Why do I want to do this? Why do I want to do this? Who/what is it serving? Am I excited for the process or the outcome? When 2020 happened, I had just moved into my permanent location for my boutique. We had spent months waiting for the space, weeks setting it up and then were opened for days before Covid shut us down. I had to
Jun 23, 20213 min read
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Strengths & Weaknesses
Every day we have seemingly small or insignificant events that happen but if we slow down enough then we see that they offer huge growth...
Jun 23, 20213 min read
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Take back your power by taking responsibility
We all have a victim living inside us. That victim will tell us that the entire world and everyone in it is to blame for our struggles,...
Jan 7, 20214 min read
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Holding Space For Little Emotions
Parenting is no joke and that’s saying something coming from me because for the most part (and being totally bias) my kids are A-MAZING....
Nov 2, 20206 min read
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Bye Bye Boobies, Hello Health, Healing & Wholeness!
Let me start by being very clear that I am not against plastic surgery or any cosmetic surgeries for that matter. Im not a pitch fork...
Oct 26, 202014 min read
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I Am All That I Want To Be
“I Am” is known as the “lost word”, But it’s not a lost word, it is just a lost meaning. I am is power. It is what you believe to be...
Oct 24, 20204 min read
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